Every one of us gets anywhere in life due to three things: someone observes us, forms an opinion about us, and decides to give us an opportunity…or not. Likewise, we do the same thing with others. People have played this essential role in our lives, and we play it in the lives of those around us–and no matter how skilled we’ve become, we can play it even better. The sequence applies in … sequence applies in business, the church, marriages, parenting, and friendships. We often assess others in the blink of an eye. We instinctively notice the look on someone’s face, the tone of voice, or the body language that’s consistent or different from the words being spoken. We react to our observation, but we seldom stop to analyze before we respond–it just happens, and it happens immediately: we observe and have an opinion, and based on what we’ve determined in that second, we either give the person an opportunity to engage with us or we close the door and remain guarded.
The Sequence to Success: Three O’s That Will Take You Anywhere in Life is a leadership book, but it’s not limited to corporate presidents, CEOs, or lead pastors; it’s for everyone who has a position of influence in another person’s life–and that includes all of us. In this book, Sam Chand brings our subconscious assumptions into the light. With more insight and confidence, you’ll make better decisions to advance the people around you…or perhaps show them the door. These principles also help you become more conscious that people are observing you and forming opinions about you that will open or close doors of opportunity.
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The Sequence To Success had me frequently agreeing with what the author was writing. Full of Biblical Truths, personal experiences, and more this book has a lot to offer. In a day and time where many people have an excuse for anything and everything, it is refreshing to read a book that emphasizes working hard and be patient.
I loved reading about how the author had to be patient in order to win his future father-in-law over to bless their marriage. I also loved reading how he became the president of the college he once went to school while also serving on the janitorial staff in order to afford tuition
Truly this book is one every Christian should read. So check it out for yourself.
I received a copy of this book for my fair and honest review.
This book offers practical counsel to get ahead in life. I enjoyed learning about the author’s experiences and how he advanced from janitor to college president. His advice for how to relate to others can be applied by anyone in relationships, but is especially practical for those in leadership. He explains how to help others succeed and to share the success you achieve. You don’t have to put others down in order to rise, but can lift them with you and bring them along on the journey. The book is short, with only six chapters divided into three sections, which cover observations by others and ourselves, opinions, and opportunities. So it doesn’t take long to read, but provides material to consider and adapt to your own life. It would be good to study in leadership training or as a small group study. I received a copy from Celebrate Lit. All opinions are my own.
My Thoughts on The Sequence to Success:
I have to admit I have gotten a lot of self-help books given to me over the years but I rarely read them. It’s not that there is anything wrong with them, just that I love reading fiction in my reading time and don’t want to “waste” it on those books. Wrong attitude? Maybe, but it was my escape from the world and I didn’t want to work on me while I was escaping!
I’ve grown up some. Now, I read these type of books but I make time for them rather than give them my fiction relax time. Because they’re not a relaxing book. You have to read them and invest in them so that they can truly work. If you read them just to read them nothing will change.
This book has some good points on how to be successful. I can’t say that my goal in life is success. My goal has more to do with raising children who love God and don’t end up in jail. So I read this book with more of a how to be successful in my own personal goals.
I did enjoy this book. It was insightful on how we view others and even sometimes ourselves. We form opinions on others based on our first impressions upon seeing them. This book could be utilized by anyone.
I have voluntarily reviewed a complimentary copy of this book which I received from Celebrate Lit. All views expressed are only my honest opinion. I was not required to write a positive review nor was I compensated in any other way. All opinions expressed are my own. I am disclosing this in accordance with the FTC regulations.
This book has nuggets of helpful information that are encouraging . We all want to be successful but at times we struggle in that area. Leaders in a church do observe others in order to discern who might make great leaders. I liked how the author explained that we are to do our best at everything. People may be watching how we work, but God is watching our attitude. Are we cheerful and respectful? Do we represent the heartbeat of God?
I will never forget the day I was promoted at the library I worked at. I went through all the interview process even though everyone knew me. All I thought about was failing and being embarrassed in front of my peers if I was turned down for the job. Little did I know that I had been observed by my boss for awhile. When I was told I got the promotion, I was excited. I was now a supervisor of twenty-six people in my dream job at the library. My boss called me into her office one day. I had no idea what she wanted to talk to me about. To my surprise she let me know the reason I got the promotion over others that had applied. She said, “ You were chosen for your leadership ability, your integrity and your passion.” There is something about you that draws people to you.” Do your best at everything and you will be rewarded “, I heard Jesus whisper as I walked out of my bosses’s office.
I’m one of those people who work well under stress. If there is a crisis I’m the one people at work people would come to. It is not easy to here critical things said about you. If it is given in the right way, it will help you grow and learn from your mistakes. Our attitude is very important and the author gives great examples of how to have a good attitude and not push people away. Have you ever smiled at a stranger and had them smile back? Do you say hi to someone in a store as you pass them? The response we get from people will depend on our attitude. No one wants to be around an unhappy person everyday. When I was working I always brought my A game. I wanted to make my patrons at the library feel welcome. It was important for my staff to work well with each other. I was their example and wanted them to follow my example of a person who is approachable.
I have received a lot of valuable input from this book. I would encourage this to be a must read for every leader in a church as well as in the workforce. We can only go as far as our leaders take us. If they don’t have good work ethics, it is hard to expect others to follow them. The author made a great point in letting readers know that this book is for everyone who is in or desires to be a leader. As I finished the book I thought about being a leader in our home. Our children observe us and imitate our actions. Are we being good examples for them to follow? When we go to church are we bringing our best attitude? This book gets a permanent spot in my bookcase. I need to be reminded sometimes to have a good attitude, observe what is around me and always do everything with my whole heart.
I received a copy of this book from Celebrate Lit. The review is my own opinion.