How well do we truly know people?When James Kreider receives the devastating news his life is being cut short with cancer, he is immediately filled with shock and disbelief. At 60 years, Jim is too young to die and believes he has a whole life ahead of him. When the reality of his impending demise sinks in, Jim methodically prepares for his final days, including trying to heal old wounds. With a … including trying to heal old wounds. With a dash of life’s regrets and unfinished business, Jim’s hours are spent pondering the legacy he will leave for his friends and children.
In preparing for the end, Jim selects five individuals to represent his life at the funeral service. This group includes Jim’s boss, his personal physician, a neighbor, the pastor of his church, and a woman whom Jim was involved with in a long-term affair. None of the individuals know each other or why they were chosen.
Summoned to the office of Jim’s attorney, the representatives disclose emotions and information few individuals want to hear. Reluctantly, they agree to share every facet of their friend.
Jim’s story not only transforms the five representatives but alters the lives of the funeral guests.
At the heart of Final Grains of Sand, this thought-provoking novel gives readers an opportunity to pause and reflect on the way they see others, as well as how they portray themselves to those around, and to help readers realize the value of one’s life is less about the length of time, but rather how we touch other people through our actions and words.
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Final Grains of Sand by David Harder is a refreshingly different, thought provoking story. It captures the emotions from the very first and never lets go. Its message is powerful, one that I don’t think I’ll ever forget.
The main character is only seen in the beginning pages, yet everything revolves around him. At the age of 60, upon discovering that he has a rare and rapidly-growing form of cancer, James Kreider proceeds to get his affairs in order without telling family, friends, or coworkers of his diagnosis. Part of this process includes the hand selection of five people to speak at his funeral, and that’s where things really get interesting.
From his children, to the lawyer, to these five people, all are realistically flawed. This is a relationship-driven story where we not only learn about James as layer after layer is peeled back, but we also see the impact of this man’s life on those around him. I doubt we ever know anyone fully, and I loved learning of Jim through each of these relationships – with minister, boss, neighbor, doctor, and lover. Themes of judgmentalism and legalism are contrasted with forgiveness and grace. These five friends are all over the place spiritually, and much spiritual growth is seen. Final Grains of Sand is an interesting story that offers many opportunities for personal reflection.
I received a copy of this book through JustRead Tours. The opinions expressed in this review are entirely my own.
3.5 Stars
I had a hard time rating this one. There were somethings I felt could have been done better: the story drags in places as each of the five speakers shares their perspective on the man they knew and this is an extremely talkie (very little action) book. But you know what? Sometimes that’s okay.
What I absolutely loved about this book was the message it carries forward. No matter how well we think we know someone, no matter how many years we’ve been friends/family/coworkers, there are facets of those lives we just don’t know about. And this man left an impression on most people he had a relationship with.
Final Grains of Sand made me think about my own life and the impressions I’m leaving for others. Is it a life well lived or am I just wasting time? And, the epilogue? Completely worth the journey!
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The subject is not for everyone. When a seemingly healthy man is suddenly told that he has little to live is always heart-wrenching and devastating for the family and close friends. I recommend it because it shows many truths and it is well-written.
The story is engaging and provoking. The characters are well developed and interesting. Final Grains of Sand is a nice title and it shows the intent in the plot. I liked it.
Final Grains of Sand by David Harder is an emotional and very well thought out story. The ending was nice. I recommend.